FOR most women, finding out their husband is sleeping with their best friend would be their worst nightmare.
However, this wasn’t the case for one wife, who was actually delighted to hear the news.
In her viral video, the TikToker who goes by user VV (@cyber_vv) explained that she and her partner are in an open relationship.
“Yeah, my husband and I do date other people sometimes, no, we are not bored of each other,” she told her followers.
The TikToker revealed that both she and her husband date other people.
However, the pair have implemented boundaries into their open marriage to ensure smooth sailing.
These include remaining “consistently open and honest with each other” throughout the process.
They are also not allowed to bring any partners back to their shared bed.
She explained that any sex sessions need to be “done elsewhere and planned ahead of time.”
Despite wanting to keep some aspects of their dating separate from their marriage, VV revealed one of her husband’s sexual partners is someone quite close to her.
She joked about “knowing my husband has been in my best friend” in a video with them both.
VV could be seen dancing carelessly as her husband and best friend got close in the background.
The TikToker shared her self assure attitude and unwavering confidence with her followers.
“I don’t compete with women, I compete with myself,” she told her audience.
She explained that she “works through” feelings of jealousy and possessiveness because she finds them to be “toxic.”
TikTok users shared their thoughts on the set-up in the comments section.
“This is why solid father figures are important,” wrote one commenter.
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a throuple.
According to You Gov, 6.8% of people in the UK have been in a polyamorous relationship.
“I will NEVER understand,” said another viewer.
“Immediately no, why even get married?” asked a third person.
“Does anyone know what being married actually means? Because it’s not an open relationship.”
“Then what’s the reason for being together? My anger issues could never,” agreed another TikTok user.
“She’s dying inside,” commented one follower.
