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I’m cheating on my husband with a WOMAN – it’s the most amazing sex I’ve ever had, I’m in love but ashamed too
A WOMAN has revealed that she was miserable with her husband and their practically non-existent sex life, but has now found herself cheating on him with a woman.
Now she is having most amazing sex she’s ever had with her lesbian lover, but feels lost, helpless and ashamed of her actions.
Eager to receive advice on what to do next, the anonymous woman took to social media to share her situation, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/offmychest thread, the woman wrote under the username @ImakeBADchoices72 and titled her post ‘I’ve cheated on my husband with another woman’.
She then shared some context to the situation and explained: “My marriage has been in trouble for the past year, but instead of trying to really face it, and try to fix things, I just tried to sweep things under the rug.
“I’m a people-pleaser, and often do things just to make people happy, even if I’m miserable. I’ve done the same when it comes to our sex life.
“We hardly have sex anymore, I just don’t want to. I’m tired of putting on an act like I even want to have sex.
“The only reason I have, in the past, is that I know how important it is to my husband, and I don’t want him to think it’s something he’s done wrong.
“It’s my problem, a problem I’ve had for a long time. My inability to experience pleasure isn’t his fault, and I’ve never let on that it is a real problem.”
The woman claimed that her husband’s business is now “all he talks about” and has required a lot of her time, which she has become resentful for.
She continued: “I’ve tried to set boundaries, about what I will do, and won’t do, but I’ve consistently ignored the boundaries, and given in to what he needs from me, just so I don’t rock the boat.
“I’m so tired of my needs being ignored, but I also realise that it’s all my fault for not standing up for what I need, and sticking to my guns about things.
“The business has taken over our lives, our bank accounts, and our marriage. I am so proud of what my husband has accomplished, but I don’t want to be involved anymore.
“He feels that if we can’t work together, that we probably can’t make a relationship work. I begged him to go to therapy with me, but he flatly refused.
“I’ve felt so helpless and alone, and I feel like he hasn’t taken my concerns to heart. That’s no excuse for what I did, but it just explains where my head has been at.”
But then after going to a friend’s house to work on an art project, things quickly took a turn.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
She admitted: “One of her friends walked in the door, and immediately I felt like I knew this woman, and that I wanted to know this woman, all at the same time.
“Fast forward a few weeks, and we were at another function together, and we made plans to go out to an art festival with another woman. It was lovely, and she was very complimentary towards me, but it was all very platonic.
“The next day, I felt compelled to call her and ask her to dinner after she got back from a trip she was taking. I figured that we could get together when she got back, several weeks from that point, but she instead suggested meeting up that next night.
“The evening was great, and as the drinks flowed, the conversation veered off into talking about how a lot of her exes were “straight girls” and I mentioned that I wasn’t exactly straight.
I felt like I finally understood why so many people I’ve known have let sex rule their decisions, and I felt like I understood what the big deal was
Reddit poster
“We went to leave the bar. She touched my shoulder and asked if I was comfortable driving home, and did I feel safe. When she touched me, there were bells and whistles, and it was like an electric current shot through my body.”
And after going back to the woman’s house, the infidelity truly began, as she admitted: “We went back to her place and had a drink and chatted, no funny business. When I went to leave, it was awkward, and we went in for a hug, but then it turned into a kiss. I knew I had to leave or it would go further.
“I saw her a few other times, with other people, and there was a definite electricity in the air, and I was on a path that I felt like I wanted to be on, even though I knew that I was on the road to betraying my husband.
“We ended up getting together and had the most amazing sex I’ve ever had.
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“I felt like I finally understood why so many people I’ve known have let sex rule their decisions, and I felt like I understood what the big deal was.
“If it were just sex, I could end it, and just be happy for that glimpse of pleasure that I had, and move on so as not to hurt my husband, but it’s an emotional affair at this point.
“I feel like I can be more honest with her, and that she actually listens to me. But I also know that it’s not a fair comparison, because everyone is attentive in the beginning of relationships.
“It’s the honeymoon period. I was once in love with my husband, and he was also attentive and romantic once, so I realise that I’m not being fair.”
I’m lost and helpless, and I’m so ashamed of what I’ve done, but at the same time, I’ve never felt this passionate about another person, ever
Reddit poster
Unsure on how to move forward, the Reddit poster acknowledged: “I’m torn because my husband deserves better than me, he deserves someone that will be faithful and desire him. I love him, even though I’ve betrayed him, and I love the new woman in my life as well.
“I’m lost and helpless, and I’m so ashamed of what I’ve done, but at the same time, I’ve never felt this passionate about another person, ever.
“I’ve always been known as a goody two shoes, who was always a rule follower, and I just wonder what has happened to me.
“I hate what I’ve done to my husband, and have no idea where to go from here.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left gobsmacked by the woman’s confession and many quickly flocked to the comments to share their thoughts and advice.
Either stay and deal, or leave
Reddit poster
One person simply said: “You should be honest with your husband.”
Another added: “You should just tell him, I bet he’ll be more intrigued than mad.”
But at the same time, someone else advised: “Never tell your husband. He doesn’t want to know you cheated. That would just be cruel. Either stay and deal, or leave.”
To this, the Reddit author responded: “Yes, that’s what my therapist said as well. I don’t want to be more cruel than I already have been. Thanks for your advice.”
ITV flogging iconic Coronation Street character outfits for hundreds of pounds amid cutbacks and cast exodus at soap
CORONATION Street bosses are flogging iconic outfits from the show for hundreds of pounds amid a cast cull at the soap.
The long-running ITV show is having a wardrobe clear-out and fans have the chance to own a piece of soap history.
The Sun can reveal Corrie bosses have created a bidding war for the garments, as well as props, on eBay.
Up for grabs for a cool £360 is an Oasis belt coat that was once worn by Kym Marsh for her character Michelle Connor.
It’s already attracted 30 bidders at the time of publication, with the coat expected to be sold on Monday evening.
A collection of Jack Duckworth’s t-shirts are also on sale, previously worn on screen by the late Bill Tarmey.
Liz McDonald’s eye-catching frocks, tops and clutches have also been added to ITV’s ‘preloved’ eBay store.
However, they’ve a modest price tag, ranging from just £5 to £20.
Shelley King’s pink dressing gown from her role as Yasmeen is also on the market, ahead of her exit from the soap.
Eva Price’s staple pink coat featuring a leopard print collar is also on the market.
Coronation Street props on sale include a trolley from Audrey Roberts’ Trim Up North barber shop.
The table cloth from Gemma and Chesney’s wedding day is also up for grabs, as well as Prima Doner staff outfits and fake wooden books depicting John Stape’s true crime novel.
A number of high-profile stars from Coronation Street have been axed or have quit in the last number of months.
Paddy Bever – who plays Max Turner – has quit and filmed his final scenes.
It comes after Charlotte Jordan, Sue Cleaver, Sue Devaney, Colson Smith, and Luca Toolan — have announced they are leaving or being written out since November 2024.
Meanwhile, Lee Rayner – who was the soap’s Head of Production – quit after 10 years for rival Hollyoaks.
Corrie cash crisis: shock exits for 2025
ITV bosses are locked in a battle to save the cash-strapped soap.
This means that a number of stars have either been axed from or have abandoned the long-running serial drama.
Colson Smith – Craig Tinker
The character of Craig Tinker has been axed by bosses after 14 years. After he was told of the news in Autumn 2024, Colson Smith confirmed that would be written out of the show with scenes to air later this year. Craig’s on-screen mum, Beth Tinker, also left the show in the summer when actress Lisa George was written out from the role.
Sue Cleaver – Eileen Grimshaw
After 25 years playing Eileen Grimshaw, former I’m A Celebrity campmate Sue Cleaver will quit the show. The Sun on Sunday reported in January that she’s already begun to film her exit scenes. However the character will not be killed off in case Sue opts to make a return in the future.
Luca Toolan – Mason Radcliffe
Bosses decided to axe the teenage character after just 16 months after he first joined the show. Recent scenes saw Mason stabbed by his criminal brothers after his pal Dylan brought a knife in an attempt to defend him.
Sue Devaney – Debbie Webster
In November 2024, we revealed that Debbie Webster is set to be killed off after 40 years on the cobbles. The character will die as part of a heartbreaking long-running dementia storyline.
Charlotte Jordan – Daisy Midgeley
The actress became the fifth star to leave Coronation Street in just one month. We revealed that she will bow out of the ITV soap later this year after four years on-screen. Charlotte told sources that she’s hungry to see what other opportunities await.
Shelley King – Yasmeen Metcalfe
The actress has played Yasmeen Metcalfe on the cobbles for the past 11 years and we revealed in January that she finished filming her final scenes. This follows the departure of her on-screen partner Stu Carpenter.
Gardai launch investigation after body of baby discovered at a home in Longford
GARDAI have launched an investigation following the discovery of a baby at a home in Longford.
Gardai are now looking into all circumstances surrounding the death of the baby.
The discovery of the unresponsive baby was made at a residential property in Abbeylara, Co Longford yesterday morning.
The body of the infant has been removed to the mortuary at Crumlin Children’s Hospital.
A post-mortem is expected to take place today.
The State Pathologist will conduct the post mortem and the results of this will determine the course of the investigation.
Gardai confirmed investigations into the case remain ongoing.
A garda spokesperson said: “Gardaí are investigating all the circumstances surrounding the death of a baby at a residential property in Abbeylara, Co. Longford yesterday morning, Sunday 26th January 2025.
“The deceased baby has been removed to the mortuary at Crumlin Children’s Hospital where a post-mortem is due to take place today, Monday 27th January 2025.
“The State Pathologist will conduct the post mortem the results of which will determine the course of the investigation.
“Investigations are ongoing.”
Separately, a man has been remanded in custody after he was charged with the murder of a woman on Saturday morning.
The 47-year-old woman, originally from Tramore, County Waterford, has been named locally and is understood to have been staying in the house on O’Brien Street where her body was found.
It’s understood Gardai were alerted at 10am by a man known to the deceased, who told them she had died accidentally.
However when paramedics and Gardai arrived at the terraced house suspicions were aroused by the injuries evident on the body, which are believed to have been consistent with an assault.
She was pronounced dead at the scene.
A 34-year-old man, with whom the dead woman was friendly, was arrested on suspicion of assault causing harm shortly after Gardai and ambulance personnel found Ms Curran’s body.
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JUDD TRUMP reckons one tournament on the snooker calendar doesn’t get the love it deserves.
World number one Trump has rated the German Masters as one of the top three events of the season and wants more to be made of the tournament he has won three times.
Trump, 35, reckons the crowd at the Berlin Tempodrom is up there with the Crucible and Alexandra Palace.
He told Metro: “Berlin is probably third place in terms of the crowd interaction and how good the crowds are, especially when you get to that final weekend and how passionate they are.
“The crowds in Berlin and the noise when you come into the final is very close to, or on a par with, the Masters.
“I think those two are out there on their own in terms of how good you feel when you play on the final weekend.”
However Trump, who won the German Masters in 2020, 2021 and 2024, reckons that more could be made of the tournament.
Claiming that the total prize pot of £550,000, of which £100,000 goes to the winner, doesn’t reflect the prominence that the event deserves in the calendar.
He added: “I’d like to have seen it grow somehow, I think the tournament deserves to be bigger than it is.
“I don’t think it should be on a par [in terms of prize money] with some of the other events like the Home Nations, although Northern Ireland is the exception.
German Masters prize money
- Champion: £100,000
- Runner-up: £45,000
- Semi-Finals: £21,000
- Quarter-Finals: £13,200
- Round of 16: £9,000
- Round of 32: £5,400
- Round of 64: £3,600
- Round of 96: £1,000
- Highest Break: £5,000
- Total: £550,400
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“I think Germany should be up there, just behind the UK [Championship], but it’s not really gone anywhere, it’s stagnated a little bit.
“There should be a few changes to make a bit bigger than it is because the crowd over there deserve it.
“It’s a little bit disappointing because I feel like they could even hold the Tour Championship or something over there.
“The crowd deserve something bigger. Its excellent to have a tournament there, but the fans deserve a bigger, more prestigious event.”
The German Masters gets underway today and runs until February 2, with Trump beginning his efforts in a clash against David Grace.
Full German Masters schedule
Monday, January 27
John Higgins vs Mark Davis
Robert Milkins vs Xu Si
Neil Robertson vs Antoni Kowalski
Chris Wakelin vs Hammad Miah
Kyren Wilson vs Cheung Ka Wai
Zhang Anda vs Graeme Dott
Zhou Yuelong vs Artemijs Zizins
Stuart Bingham vs Thepchaiya Un-Nooh
David Gilbert vs Ben Woollaston
Barry Hawkins vs Alfie Burden
Jak Jones vs Allan Taylor
Stephen Maguire vs Joe O’Connor
Shaun Murphy vs Liam Graham
Judd Trump vs David Grace
Tuesday, January 28
Ross Muir w/o Ding Junhui
Pang Junxu vs Anthony McGill
Mark Selby vs Liu Hongyu
Si Jiahui vs Ken Doherty
Elliot Slessor vs Liu Haotian
Hossein Vafaei vs Yuan Sijun
Mark Allen vs David Lilley
Luca Brecel vs Jiang Jun
Ali Carter w/o He Guoqiang
Jack Lisowski vs Alexander Ursenbacher
Wu Yize vs Jackson Page
Xiao Guodong vs Fan Zhengyi
Ryan Day vs Ricky Walden
Tom Ford w/o Dominic Dale
Dylan Emery w/o Ronnie O’Sullivan
Noppon Saengkham vs Jimmy Robertson
Mark Williams vs Aaron Hill
Gary Wilson vs Daniel Wells