I tried the first ever “for mums, by mums” vibrator — it was so quiet I used it while my partner was on a work call

AS a mum of two, I know all too well how it feels to lose control of your body after birth and feel disconnected from yourself.

So, I was super excited to try the first vibrator designed by mums, for mums — courtesy of Smile Makers.

Made from ultra-soft material, The Whisperer is specifically designed to help women reconnect with pleasure after childbirth.

The curved head gently hugs the clitoris, while its flexible body allows for soft, controlled pressure. And its super quiet settings are ideal for anyone looking to ease back into pleasure after a break without worrying about noise.

Designed in partnership with the experts at Mumsnet, It’s already received glowing reviews and boasts a 4.9-star rating online, so here’s hoping it leaves me with a smile on my face!

Pros

• Rechargeable battery
• Three speeds and two pulsation modes
• Affordable
• Waterproof
• Very quiet (if not totally silent)

Cons

• Better for solo play than intercourse
• There are already similar products on the market

Rating: 9/10

How I tested The Whisperer

Georgie Culley

I took The Whisperer for a test ride — both alone and during intercouse[/caption]

The Whisperer, £34.95 £29.71 from Smile Makers using code WHISPERER

As The Sun’s Sexpert, I’ve tested a lot of vibrators over the years, and my partner often gets dragged along for the ride. (Not that he’s complaining, of course). 

I gave The Whisperer a solo test run first before I paired it with intercourse to add a helping hand.

Smile Makers The Whisperer review: Quickfire Q&A

How much is The Whisperer? It’s a very reasonable £34.95. And to celebrate Mother’s Day, Smile Makers is running a 15% off code — simply enter WHISPERER at checkout to claim.

Who’s it best for? It’s been designed specifically for mothers, who often worry about rediscovering their sexuality after childbirth. It’s perfect for solo play, but if you’re after a shared experience, you can easily incorporate it into intercourse for an added thrill.

What I loved: The toy feels super silky, looks cute, and is totally unintimidating. It’s easy to use, and the best part? It comes fully charged — because nothing kills the mood faster than having to wait for a charge before the fun begins!

What I didn’t: Honestly? It’s hard to find a fault. The packaging doesn’t look like a sex toy, which I suppose could be a little confusing, but this does make it very discreet.

Smile Makers The Whisperer review: The Nitty Gritty

First impressions

Georgie Culley

Smile Makers’ marketing makes it feel like a teeth-whitening brand[/caption]

The Whisperer, £34.95 £29.71 from Smile Makers using code WHISPERER

When I first opened the package, I genuinely thought I’d ordered a teeth-whitening kit.

The sleek white and mint-green packaging, the lips logo, and the name Smile Makers — is this a cheeky marketing trick? If so, it’s bloody genius!

With so many people too embarrassed to buy sex toys, this one is perfectly discreet.

But let’s get to the juicy bit. This tiny but mighty vibrator comes fully charged (hallelujah!), so you can get straight down to business the moment you unwrap it. No awkward waiting, just instant satisfaction.

Designed to look like a lipstick, it slips straight into your handbag – meaning pleasure on the go has never been easier.

As a mum of two, I know how easy it is to lose yourself after having kids.

That’s why I love that this product is created by mums, for mums — because let’s be honest, no one understands a woman’s body better than another woman.

Does it… deliver?

Georgie Culley

The Whisperer makes up for a lack of intensity in gentle, sensual pleasure[/caption]

The Whisperer, £34.95 £29.71 from Smile Makers using code WHISPERER

The Whisperer’s silky-soft design makes it ideal for postpartum bodies and anyone who finds hard plastic or metal toys uncomfortable.

With three speeds and two pulsation modes, there’s plenty of variety, even if the strongest setting isn’t as intense as some other toys.

But what it lacks in size, it makes up for in gentle, sensual pleasure. 

The curved tip keeps things soft and unintimidating, making it perfect for new mums looking to reconnect with themselves without diving straight into something too intense.

While some vibrators go full throttle, this one takes its time, building pleasure slowly and sensually — which, in my book, makes for an even better orgasm.

I played around with the settings, and when it finally tipped me over the edge (in less than a few minutes, might I add), it was well worth the wait.

Sure, I could have jumped straight to the highest setting, but a slow build-up makes the finale so much more explosive.

And the best part? It’s so quiet that I used it while my partner was on an important work call — without anyone being the wiser. 

And the best part? It’s so quiet that I used it while my partner was on an important work call — without anyone being the wiser. 

I also tested it with my partner during intercourse, and thanks to its soft, squishy texture, it was easy and comfortable to manoeuvre, even in different positions like doggy style and spooning.

It added just the right amount of extra stimulation without being too intimidating for my other half.

What’s more, since it’s fully waterproof, you can even take it into the shower — which I have, erm, more than a few times.

Let’s just say it has definitely spiced up my morning routine!

All in all? A discreet, sensual, and mum-approved bedroom must-have.

How much is The Whisperer?

The Whisperer is just £34.95, making it very affordable.

For the price, it’s great value, especially considering that many vibrators of this size still rely on batteries, whereas this one is rechargeable — saving you both hassle and money in the long run.

To celebrate Mother’s Day, shoppers can get 15% off the toy until the end of March using the code WHISPERER at checkout.

Where to buy The Whisperer

Thanks to the discount code, the best place to buy The Whisperer is probably the Smile Makers website.

However, it’s also available from retailers including Look Fantastic, Cult Beauty and Beauty Bay.

The Whisperer alternatives

There are a few lipstick vibrators on the market, with cheaper models available from So Devine. Ann Summers and Lovehoney.

However, a couple have mixed reviews, and The Whisperer stands out because it’s been designed by mums, with comfort and pleasure in mind.