Sometimes life takes a turn, and suddenly you’re caught in the middle of a whirlwind, struggling to make sense of it all. One minute, you’re living out the dream you’ve shared with the person you love, capturing memories on Instagram, painting a picture-perfect life. And the next, that dream shatters in front of you, leaving you questioning everything you thought you knew. That’s exactly what happened to Gabby Petito, whose life was tragically cut short, forever intertwining her name with the dark shadows of tragedy.
The Netflix docuseries American Murder: Gabby Petito takes us behind the scenes of this real-life drama, unraveling a tale of love, heartbreak, and deception. It dives deep into the mystery of Petito’s disappearance, the investigation that ensued, and the devastating conclusion that ultimately brought the case to a close. In the process, the documentary sheds light on the complexities of relationships, social media personas, and the eerie ways in which things can go wrong.
As we watched the documentary unfold, we couldn’t help but be struck by a profound sense of disbelief and sadness. It’s as if you’re watching a tragedy play out in real-time, with every new revelation leaving you with more questions than answers. What really happened to Gabby Petito? And how did Brian Laundrie go from being a fiancé to a fugitive?
This case has haunted us all, and Netflix’s documentary helps us piece together the fragmented story. Here are the five key things we learned.
5. A Relationship that started with love, but ended in tragedy
At the heart of this whole situation is the relationship between Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie. The couple’s story began like a fairytale. They met in high school, and by 2019, they were a couple, with Petito moving in with Laundrie’s family in North Port, Florida. However, behind the shiny façade of their social media accounts, things were not as perfect as they seemed.
The two had been engaged in 2020, and together they embarked on the #vanlife journey, a modern-day adventure that inspired many. But as we all know, the path of true love never runs smoothly, and things quickly took a turn for the worse. Their relationship started to show signs of strain, something that wasn’t reflected in Petito’s joyful Instagram posts.
The cracks began to appear when Laundrie’s controlling behavior became more evident, and friends of Petito described a growing discomfort between her and Laundrie’s family, particularly his mother, Roberta.
Their road trip across the country in the summer of 2021 was supposed to be the ultimate adventure, but a domestic violence incident in Utah on August 12, 2021, painted a troubling picture. Petito and Laundrie had a physical altercation, which led to a police intervention, though no charges were pressed. It’s a stark contrast to the upbeat, curated images they posted online, leading viewers to think how easy it is for us to get lost in the illusion of other people’s lives through social media.
Sometimes we only see what we want to see.
4. The disappearance: A mysterious vanishing act
As Gabby Petito’s Instagram account continued to update, things started to feel off. The final post, made on August 25, 2021, was her last confirmed communication before she disappeared (via Irish Star). Witnesses saw her and Brian Laundrie together on August 27 at a restaurant in Jackson Hole, Wyoming (via ABC7). But what happened after that remains a mystery.
On August 30, texts were sent from Petito’s phone, suggesting she was still alive. But these texts only raised suspicions, especially because they didn’t sound like something Petito would write.
Petito’s mother, Nicole Schmidt, was the first to sense something was wrong. She had stopped responding to texts, and the final text message she sent to her mom was unsettling. It read (via Time):
Can you help Stan? I just keep getting his voicemails and missed calls.
Petito never referred to her grandfather by his first name. That was the moment Schmidt realized something was seriously wrong. Days later, Brian Laundrie returned to his parents’ home in Florida on September 1, 2021, without Petito. And that’s when the investigation began.
It’s chilling to think about how quickly things escalated from what should have been an innocent trip to a nightmare.
3. The role of social media and public scrutiny
The investigation into Gabby Petito’s disappearance wasn’t just about police work—it was also about public perception. As the search began, people took to social media to piece together clues. Platforms like TikTok and Instagram became battlegrounds for amateur detectives who combed through Petito’s posts, analyzing every detail in an attempt to find answers. In some ways, this was a new age of investigation, where crowdsourcing information and tips led to key discoveries.
One major breakthrough came when another #vanlife blogger stumbled upon a video showing Petito’s van in Spread Creek, Wyoming (per Time). It was this discovery that eventually led to the finding of Petito’s body on September 19, 2021. It’s both fascinating and disturbing how the collective efforts of the online community played a role in solving the case.
At the same time, it speaks to the strange intersection of crime and media that we now live in. But we suppose that’s the reality we live in—where everyone is a participant in the narrative, whether they like it or not.
2. The mysterious disappearance of Brian Laundrie
After Gabby Petito’s body was discovered, Brian Laundrie became the primary suspect. He had returned home to Florida, where his parents refused to cooperate with the authorities, hiring a lawyer instead. The more the investigation unfolded, the more the Laundrie family’s actions raised eyebrows. Laundrie was eventually reported missing on September 17, 2021, just days after Petito’s body was discovered.
The search for Laundrie was nothing short of dramatic, spanning over 37 days and covering over 20,000 acres in the Myakkahatchee Creek Environmental Park. It wasn’t until October 20, 2021, that Laundrie’s remains were found, along with a confession in a notebook, revealing the dark truth. He admitted in his writings that he killed Petito out of “mercy” after she had been in pain following an accident (via CNBC).
Laundrie said that in Petito’s last moments, she was “begging for an end to her pain,” which led him to believe that ending her life was a “merciful” way to relieve her suffering. He also admitted that he chose to take his own life after realizing that
[He] couldn’t stand to live another day without her.
However, this conflicted with the autopsy results, which showed Petito had died from strangulation (via Time).
It’s hard to wrap our minds around the fact that Brian Laundrie, a person who once seemed so normal and in love, was capable of such violence. And the fact that he chose to end his life rather than face the consequences only deepens the mystery. It’s tragic all around, and the fact that Petito’s family had to endure the pain of losing both her and the man who killed her is unfathomable.
1. A Family’s fight for justice
In the wake of Brian Laundrie’s death, Gabby Petito’s family had no closure. They were left to grapple with the fact that they would never get to hear Laundrie’s side of the story in a court of law. But their fight for justice didn’t end there. In 2022, they filed a civil lawsuit against Laundrie’s parents, alleging that they knew their son was involved in Petito’s death (via People).
Though the lawsuit was eventually settled for $3 million, it was a stark reminder that even in the face of tragedy, the fight for justice is far from over.
American Murder: Gabby Petito is a call for all of us to take a deeper look at the world we live in. It’s a reminder that we need to question everything we see and not just accept things at face value. It’s a reflection of how, sometimes, we can be blinded by what’s posted online, and how we must remember that there are real human lives behind the hashtags and filters. The truth is messy, complex, and often painful, but it’s important to keep seeking it.
In a world where we’re constantly connected, it’s essential to understand that what we see on the surface is only a small part of the whole story. The case of Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie is a tragic chapter in the ongoing story of human relationships, and it will surely continue to haunt us for years to come.
American Murder: Gabby Petito is streaming on Netflix.
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